2 Fundraisers

Spark of Hope is at it again, this years "Vegas Nights" will take place at the most prime location in Tempe, AZ! Today, Drake, Broc, Trey, Mike and myself had the pleasure of getting a sneak peak of the key location along with a VIP tour given by the VIP's themselves, Mr. James Neal and Mr. Vince Adams.

Last year this event was so much fun as we suspect Spark of Hope to be outdoing themselves this year, Thursday, October 15th from 7-10 pm. At the end of 2009 Spark of Hope Charities were extremely generous in their donations to Treys Treasures. Please support there fundraising efforts by attending this amazing event.

...and again like last year, the 2nd fundraiser is given by my dear friend Margo Anderson who is hosting an Usborne book party. Last year with the portion of earnings Margo earned as a sales rep. coming off of sales from my party along with the free books that we earned from that same party, we were able to put together beautiful baskets to use in our auction at Treys Treasures golf fundraiser.


This year not only will Trey benefit, but also Nathan, Margo's son. Remember, Christmas is right around the corner... For those of you who ordered last year you know first hand that Usborne book's are of superior quality. This is Margo's email;

Hi Friends,
I hope you don't mind me doing this mass email. Most of you know that my oldest son, Nathan, has a rare genetic disease called MPS VI. For those of you that don't know anything about it you can look up more info on www.mpssociety.org. Anyway, the reason I am writing to you is because my son just got accepted to receive a wish from the Make A Wish foundation. When accepted we found out that their funding is really low right now and it is taking them a while to grant wishes for kids. So I decided to do a small part and try to raise a little bit of money to be donated to this foundation. I am hosting a show through Usborne Books a company that makes great books for children from infancy on up. With each purchase 25% of that total will be donated. Plus, the free books earned from this show will be donated to a great friend of mine and her family in Arizona that has a child with MPS IV. This family is putting together a fundraiser for their son to help pay for his medical expenses. The books they receive will be put in a silent auction. If you are interested in helping out and ordering, please go to this link www.ubah.com/HOS153684 or go to www.readforawareness.com and click on Make A Wish under the Eshow section on the top right.
You may also forward this on to anyone you know who might be interested as well.
Thanks in advance for your support.
Warmly,
Margo

Dunkin Cops - Fundraiser for Treys Treasures

Oktoberfest 10/2-10/4/2009

We had so much fun this weekend attending and helping out with Trey’s dunk tank fundraiser. The booth was called “Dunkin Cops” and that’s just was it was, $5 for 3 balls to do your very best to Dunk the Cop sitting in the tank…all proceeds going to the Tempe Sister Cities and Trey’s Treasures medical fund. How we begin to thank Donna Austen, her sister Vickie and their friend Betty, I don’t know. Donna didn’t ask but informed me back sometime ago that she would be running a dunk tank at Oktoberfest to raise money for Trey. With a lot of persistence and much, much hard work, Donna set up a superb event! Donna and her sister, Vickie, are also the two wonderful ladies who set up the “Take Down” for Trey fundraiser last year. This time instead of the wrestlers taking down one another it was the public “taking down” the cops.


People had a blast getting their revenge by “Dunkin a Cop” and all for a good cause. Trey got the biggest kick out of seeing the officers get wet...he was laughing from the bottom of his belly, he thought it was so funny. Thank you, thank you to Donna, Vickie, Betty, Universal Police Supply, Dunkin Donuts, Tambo Ink, ASU Cheerleaders, Sams Club, Lowes, Hogue Printing and of course the 32 gracious police officers that took time away from their families this weekend to help ours. This fundraiser was a big success and a ton of fun…thank you from the “bottom of my dunk tank” – Trey

Afterwards Mike & I took the boys for a ride on the light rail - they especially liked looking back at the festival all light up as well as the Tempe bridge.

And the flip side...
I feel joyous about this weekend's success for our little man but also so melancholy over what all we must do for him…..to ensure a healthy life for Trey.
I'm just envious of those families in attendance at that event just walking around on a Sunday without a care in the world regarding the health of their children - I think people take having a "normal" life at home so for granted. Our normal is so different now!
Thanks for hopping on the light rail with the boys - I think they really enjoy just doing "outside the box" activities - they're boys!
I love you and Cam and think you are so AMAZING!
Have a good day with the "krew" my SuperMom.
Love,
Mookie

Friday Night Football

Friday Night - Oct. 2, 2009

My boys were in their glory this Friday night when we attended a HopeKids event: The Hamilton vs. Chandler High Football Game. Football on a rainy night, excellent food, getting to meet the Husky mascot, face painting, gift bags, t-shirts, seats on the field, and a last second game winning touchdown…what could get better than that!


Drake, Broc and Trey along with all the HopeKids in attendance were invited onto the field to run through the humungous Hamilton helmet and remain on the field to cheer for the Hamilton Huskies as they went for their 12th consecutive win against the Chandler Wolves…what a rivalry. All the names of the HopeKids were announced as they walked across the length of the football to be recognized…they loved it!


At half time a check was presented to the HopeKids organization from both high schools. The high school kids raised the money during the week by donating their spare change to money jars located at each school.

In addition to the food, music, entertainment and on the field, front row seats, each HopeKid was given a bag full of goodies that included, two t-shirts, a pompon, bubbles, chalk, two footballs, a cup full of candy, coupons for Krispy Kreme Doughnuts, and more…Trey had a blast, as did Drake and Broc. HopeKids most definitely accomplished their goal of taking the worry of the diagnosis away and giving the kids something to look forward to, to hope for…our boys would hope for a football game like that every weekend! A huge Thank you to HopeKids and Mr. Farabee for putting on such a wonderful event!

Eyes and Ears and Mouth and Nose...

October 2, 2009


What a busy Friday…two doctor appointments, a needle flush to Trey’s port and a GH shot… a lot for a little guy to take in one day but as usual, Trey was mommy’s “Super Trooper”!

Trey’s first appointment at 8:30am was his yearly eye check up Dr. Salevitz. Trey did so well with everything, even with those uncomfortable eye drops…he’s my hero! Dr. Salevitz gave me the run down on what he was looking for with Trey in a normal annual visit and in a child with a storage disease; misalignment, far sided, lazy eye, cross eyed, normal blood vessels and optic atrophy…enough to scare any parent.

After the initial eye test and the time for the eye drops to fully dilate Trey’s pupils so that Dr. Salevitz could get a good look behind Trey’s eye’s, we are pleased to report that everything looks really good. Trey’s prescription is 20/30 in both eyes, he has no glare and although he still has the slight clouding of the cornea, we have nothing to be alarmed with. Our instructions were to keep Trey happy and to make an appointment in a year from now…my kind of way to start the day.

Trey's favorite part of the appointment was looking into the machine he called "the motorcycle"...too cute!

After a few errands we were off to Dr. Fucci’s office for the follow up appointment four months after the insertion of Trey’s tubes. For the first time Trey actually decided that he would take the hearing test for Dr. Fucci’s staff…the kids got a mind of his own. With an excellent test score and a visual look into Trey’s ears that proved “perfection”, we were sent home with all good news (and as you can imagine a huge smile on this mom’s face).

We go into every appointment with apprehension…the “what if” is so hard but I’d have to say the waiting is the hardest. Never knowing what one appointment from the next will bring, we live for today…and today was a very good day!

Our story continues...

I realize a lot of you may not understand, knowing we already have three beautiful children but the thought of me getting “fixed” today truly saddens me (I had the Essure procedure done). I feel a bit empty, kinda like a part of my happiness relating to being pregnant and being a mom was stolen from me when we found out Trey was sick – the rug was pulled from under my feet and now I am ending that chapter in my life. I know we don’t want anymore babies (or was that decision made for me by default?) but I want my happy memories back. We had it all…I truly felt guilty that our children were so beautiful, happy and healthy and that it was so easy for us to get pregnant…I guess it all came with a price. I love Trey, Drake and Broc more than life itself and I know that Trey is the ONLY Trey their will ever be but what I would give to turn back the clock and know what I know now and still be able to have the “Trey sperm and egg” to conceive him in the healthy form.

Mike and I were about to “go for” baby number four up until that alarming day in November 2007. Up until this day, doctor appointment after doctor appointment, not one could diagnose our then 2 ½ year old baby, Trey. Mike and I went into this meeting with the mindset that if this ends up being another appointment that we leave from with no answers or even hunches, we would try one more time for another baby. Of course I thought it would be wonderful to give Trey a playmate since Drake and Broc are so close in age, to add another “little Lane” and make our family an even number would be the best for all involved (in time Mike too would agree J).

I remember my childhood with my two older brothers being so close in age, two years later I come along and yet another little Cuomo, just 18 months after me... 4 Cuomo kids – 2 and 2. I can’t imagine my life without my baby brother…my dress up doll, my playmate, my best friend. I wanted the same for Trey. Needless to say, Mike and I recognized the intuition of the doctor at that appointment on that frightful day and in that moment my dreams of adding to our beautiful family was brought to a screaming halt.

Fast forward two years, again, doctor appointment after doctor appointment, a correct diagnosis and the reality that another baby (stem cells, umbilical cord, etc.) would not be able to help Trey and his condition, we have decided to do something permanent about the situation. I have come to the realization that we are done having babies. Knowing what I know now (and didn’t at the time we were going to try again), I believe God was instrumental in making us “wait” before we went ahead with our plan to conceive again…our story was written.

My procedure is irreversible but I rest in the fact that IF there were ever a way to save Trey’s precious life we could through IVF. For now, there will be no unplanned pregnancies; God knows I couldn’t go through a pregnancy knowing the chances of conceiving another affected baby. Thank you for “intervening”, our story continues...
*photos are in order from last to first - me; 9 months pregnant with Drake, 9 months pregnant with Broc and 9 months pregnant with Trey

For YOU my Son

This very articulate letter was written by Mike to St. Joe’s Hospital Risk Management Team following our meeting with them last week. I am so happy to have this chapter of our lives behind us and to have been given the opportunity to voice our concerns with this institution. Telling our story was so cleansing to me and believe it or not, I am able to let go of the “bad feelings” towards these particular doctors and move forward for Trey. For this I thank whom ever it was who called in our complaint and got the “ball rolling” for Mike and I...in essence, for Trey.

We were able to tell our story to people that I believe cared to hear of our difficult experience and truly wanted us to know that this is not how they would ever want another family to go away from their hospital feeling. To be able to reiterate our account of the past year made me feel like we were fighting for Trey, (for all children) to be heard and express his/our “hearts” where he could never have done so for himself.

I pray that this letter has been forwarded on to Trey’s past doctors and that they will know the depths of our pain and how their lack of follow through and concern afflicted our family’s life. I pray that they will take from it what they will, accept the constructive critique and that another child in their care will benefit because of Trey and his story.

Thank you my sweet husband for this follow up letter and for expressing so flawlessly our position. Trey is very lucky to have a daddy like you 

I love you for loving our baby so completely, Cami


Hello,
Cami and I have discussed things further over the past two days since we all met again the other morning.
We truly hope that by sharing our experience at St. Joseph's Hospital; raises "administrative" awareness towards improving the nurturing component so integral to a medical doctors Hippocratic duty towards healing those entrusted to their care.
The past year and a half has been so difficult on my family. I hope both physicians can see it in their hearts to maybe empathize with the struggles and anguish Cami and I feel daily over the powerless reality surrounding our young child's crippling disorder. We needed and frankly deserved a more vigilant partnership with our doctors to which they were remiss in providing. We were frightened for our child and wanted help in wading through what often felt like an endless maze of closed doors. This degree of comfort quite often could have been satisfied by just a welcoming smile during a two-minute check-up once a week or even the re-assuring touch to Trey's shoulder while he rested during his treatments.
This note is not meant to rehash concerns previously discussed it's more of a plea that these highly trained professionals work to "conduct business better" and just remember how powerful words or often lack of words can be on a family praying for even the slightest sliver of hope.
Thank you again for the time provided to present our story to your work group and also in your efforts to quell some of our pain and frustration over the totality of everything.
Sincerely, Mike Lane