Shopping Extravaganza

We were all a bit overwhelmed at the Shopping Extravaganza that Kelli and her family but together this past weekend, If you missed it, you missed an excellent opportunity to buy some very unique Christmas gifts. The raffle that was held in Trey’s honor was just short of amazing in that the quantity of prizes that were being raffled off was over the top. I was so touched by the amount of work that Kelli, her mom, Jan and sister, Kim put into this event and also very humbled to have been chosen to be a recipient of it. Trey stopped to take a quick picture with our new friends to thank them for their hard work and generosity.
As if the raffle wasn’t enough, as Trey’s little face was pressed up on the glass to peer at all the awesome prizes in the display case, he paid special attention to the football right at eye level. The ladies took note that Trey loved the ball and made sure that his name had a chance of being picked for the ASU football signed by Mr. Frank Kush…low and behold, Trey won the football. Hummm, amazing how that worked out. Trey’s face lit up when Kelli handed him the ball as we all headed into his bed room for Trey to show us where his new football would sit.

Again, thank you never seems like enough but here we are expressing again from the bottom of our heart, thank you for the donation to Treys medical account and for the football too.

Treys Treasure Chest for Hope 2010 Fundraiser

The website for Trey's next fundraiser is up and running!
Please check it out at:
http://treystreasurechestforhope.org/


We are eager to acquire any donations you may have from putting together a basket to raffle, to a gift card from your business or one you asked your neighborhood retailer/restaurant to donate for Trey's cause, to time shares, travel vouchers, sporting events and collectibles, homemade crafts, etc. If you really would like to help but can't think of a way, think of a theme and then go around to retailer's in your area and collect items pertaining to that theme, get a hold of us and we will be more than happy to put together a gift basket of your donations. Copy the "about me" section of Treys blog or his new site and present it to anyone and everyone that you think may be willing to help - you'd be surprised at how much people are willing to give to a good cause. Thank you in advance for all your efforts - the littlest thing go the longest ways...

DUE TO THE FACT THAT TREY IS AN INDIVIDUAL AND NOT AN ORGANIZATION, WE WILL BE UNABLE TO OBTAIN A NON PROFIT 501(C)3 CHARITABLE ORGANIZATION DESIGNATION

BUT...PLEASE TAKE NOTE (as written in Novembers Money Magazine)-

Year-End Tax Moves to Make Now - Right Now!
There's plenty to distract you from financial planning this time of year, from cheering on your favorite football team to daydreaming about Christmas dinner. But you don't want to let some end-of-year deadlines slip by without taking steps to minimize taxes and maximize savings. Especially in this economic climate, a little extra cash can go a long way.
Give Gifts
As always, remember that you CAN give up to $13,000 per recipient tax-free this year (a couple can give $26,000). This is the amount that you can donate to an individual WITHOUT having to provide a tax ID for and still be able to deduct as charitable donations/gifts on your 2009 tax returns. That should make somebody's holidays especially happy.
That being said, as long as you don't "gift" more than $13,000 (single person) to Trey in a tax year, you will be able to deduct every single cent of your donation to Treys Treasures and we can stop spinning our wheels on how to be able to obtain a 501(c)3 designation from now on. Truly the only people that will have a tougher time giving to Trey's cause will be very large corporations like Home Depots, Wal Mart, Costco, Airlines, etc. but even then, we have found that if you just ask or know the right person/department, we have still been blessed with donations for Trey.

We are also looking for sponsor's - ask about the many levels this fundraiser offers and the details of each.

Hello Mr. Santa

Mike and I took the boys to see Santa this past weekend. Trey was so excited to SEE him that he snuck up to the front of the line, sat off to the side and stared at Mr. Santa in awe. The picture I took was just okay but the memories will last a lifetime. Also added to this entry are a couple of pictures we took for this years Christmas card.
Speaking of pictures, our wonderful neighbor, Michelle had family pictures taken at Lamar Studios this past year and wanted to give us the same gift to treasure. Michelle expressed her wish (as well as Treys story, I'm sure) to the studio owners which resulted in an extremely generous gift certificate for a free session as well as prints in which Michelle so kindly gave to me. With joy in my heart I accepted the gift certificate but couldn't promise that Mike and I would be in the "family pictures" as she had requested (too much stress on mommy and daddy this year to capture on film). anyway, the boys had their photos taken last week (yes, I said only the boys and not Mike and I - I didn't break any promises). Since then I've already picked up the prints, framed them and hung them in our home... they are absolutely beautiful!!! Thank you Michelle and Lamar for a gift that we will cherish for a lifetime and one that I will forever and ever hold dear to my heart!
The link to our proofs:
http://www.lamarstudiosphotography.com/Other/Lane-Cami/10623483_jj567#738867266_CyiT8

Happy Holidays and a very Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

Mr. Personality

This is an e-mail my sister-in-law sent to me after watching Trey for Mike and I the other day...he truly is such a little shining light for all to see.

Cam,
Thank you so much for the honor and pleasure of "babysitting" today! Pure heaven is all I can say. I hope I can accurately recall today's events because I know they make you laugh as much as they did me.
Our morning was fairly routine, of course Trey had to pick out his own clothes and dress himself. Trey picked his favorite shorts, got a huge grin & said "I left this in my pocky"! It was his Bat Chapstick from Halloween..... we both laughed and Trey put the lip balm on.
So off to Physical Therapy. Trey waited eagerly in the chair, put on some more chapstick and attempted to hide from Mr. Mike but Trey's excited wiggles and giggles gave him away.

PT was was particularly busy today and we thought Trey was going to swim first and got him changed, but there was a change in venue. Trey's disappointment was obvious, I was concerned that he wouldn't be interested in working out. Mr. Mike got down on the floor with Trey and he still wasn't showing a lot of interest until Mr. Mike asked if he just had pancakes & syrup. Of course Trey and I instantly laughed because I asked him the same question while getting him out of his car seat. Trey giggled and told Mr. Mike "it's my bats"! All of a sudden I hear a woman's voice saying "show me how you do that Trey" to which Trey responded positively. The voice was coming from one of the tables - it was another PT patient. Within minutes every patient in the room was cheering Trey on. In true Trey fashion, and without saying a word, Trey had actively engaged 4 patients and a woman who had driven her mother in for therapy in his work out - they were all cheering him on and laughing watching Trey interact with Mr. Mike. One woman even asked me which days he comes to therapy so she could schedule hers around Trey! If you think about it, most people that come to PT are in pain and it's not the most exciting place to be. Only Trey could let his light shine through for all to see.

Trey and Mr. Mike are hilarious together, it was time to get the laser cart and from another room I heard Trey exclaim "My do it"!!! Not to be outdone, I overheard Mr. Mike explaining to Trey he had to wait just a minute so the wand wasn't "Coldie". Mr. Mike was so amazing with Trey, he was either on the floor racing with Trey or making it a fun game for Trey to ensure he gets the full benefit of his work out. Trey is definitely in the right place!
Love ya!
Cath

A Season A Reason to Give

This time last year we were blessed to be chosen to be the recipients to the Care Bear Pre School’s Annual Holiday Boutique. My beautiful friend Dolores mentioned Treys story to Miss Carrie, the owner of Care Bear and the rest is history.
Carrie, Mary and Tamela went above and beyond to bring to the community a spectacular event.

They had incredible auction items for the adults to bid on and food, snow cones, bounces’, face painting, and even a photo with Santa for the kids to enjoy. I think we closed the place down as Drake, Broc and Trey weren’t ready to leave…what child would be?

Mike and I are extremely grateful for the friends we have. It is so special when you are brought to the point of being so touched by Trey’s journey that you feel the need to help us in such amazing ways.

Thank you to Care Bear Pre School and to Dolores for showing us the love you did this time last year, your thoughtfulness will forever be remembered in our hearts.

Thanksgiving in California

Our Thanksgiving break was so much fun! Anytime we can get away as a family, out of “life as we know it” and into a daily circumstance that doesn’t truly exists for any family with a sick child is so gratifying for all of us. Driving wasn't all that easy on Trey's back as I had predicted but adjustments were made for the ride home which made for a much, much better experience. Universal Studios was such a blast! The big guys went on all the rides with daddy while mommy took Trey to get his face painted and to play games…his pirate face turned out awesome and he even won a prize playing games...happy, happy was this little boy! The Disney Studio’s did it up in Grande style! The boys had the best time swinging and jumping around, learning to draw from an actual Disney animator, as well as seeing the sneak preview of Disney’s, The Princess and the Frog but the best time’s for Trey were the ones with “the man” himself, Mickey Mouse and to our surprise, meeting and talking to not once but three times (my baby has a crush) princess Cinderella. How do you put a price tag on that? Here are the boys in the middle of our drive home - working to pay for their vacation Thank you John, Joyce, Cathy and Bryan for offering to celebrate Thanksgiving with us on Sunday. The food was terrific, the family time was just what we needed, and if only our Cardinal Birdies would have won, the day would have been that much more perfect, ha-ha. We were able to take advantage of the Disney offer and still provide a traditional Thanksgiving for the boys...for that we are thankful!

Turkey Day with Trey

11/25/09
Mike and I were invited up to Trey's school to enjoy a piece of pie with him in celebration of Thanksgiving. Not only did we eat some yummy pie, we also had the pleasure of watching Trey sing and dance to a few songs as well as interact on the playground with his preschool friends. Mike and I truly enjoyed visiting Trey's class today. We are so glad we made time to join him on our way out of town, as it would have been so much easier to stay home and continue to pack for our trip. We made sure we didn't miss this moment and so very happy we did because the smile on Trey's face when Mommy AND Daddy walked into his class was priceless...these are the moments!

Up the charts

Trey had his 3 month check up for his hGH and he GREW again!!! From 38.3” on 8/19/09 to 38.7” on 11/20/09…not much but we’ll take it! As a result of the growth Trey has shown on hGH, he is now back on the growth charts and in the 2% for boys his age-Yahoo!

In addition to his check up we were given medicine to help fight a nasty sinus infection Trey had come down with...so you can imagine how hard it was on him to have to go to the lab directly after this checkup to get blood drawn...in Trey's own words, "I NOT happy".

And same ol’ same ol’, Trey still hasn’t gotten accustom to his daily shots as we were told to expect. so we try to talk him into the fact that it will be quick and that he is such a big boy, Broc will do something goofy in front of Trey to take his attention off the “poke” and Drake will help me hold Trey’s wiggly legs but with no luck…we get tears every night. My poor babies cautie patutie little booty, I feel so bad to have to give him a shot every single night but seeing the results makes this event a lot easier to stomach.


Speaking of hGH, our endocrinologist wrote the most spectacular letter to our insurance company to try to get the hGH approved for Trey (this is the third appeal) but to no avail…we are now waiting to see what the next step will be. But until then, we have a few more weeks supply to administer and will hope and pray for a way for Trey to continue on growth hormone since is seems to be working.

What are you THANKFUL for?...Luv, Mike

Cami,
Your question for the family on “thankfulness” is tough to answer for I feel such a juggernaut of emotions in my life right now.

I am so angry for the unjust card our little angel has been dealt but yet feel so blessed for the magnitude of joy he brings me EVERY single time, he laughs, smiles, stares into my eyes, calls me “dadda”, or just brushes his tiny fingers against my arm or leg. I can’t imagine my life without him in it. I still feel like its Xmas morning, every time I drive home from work and know his sweet little face will be greeting me from around the corner in the hallway.

I’m also so very thankful for having you in my life during this time, you are so wonderful and provide so many lessons in life that I fear I’ve failed to grasp as perhaps a more attentive student should be in this challenging chapter in our lives. You have such an innate and humble ability to find such good in every situation, you always make it a habit to thank others, and always express such appreciation sincerely without expecting anything in return……I think you’ve been trying to show me how precious life is and that we should cherish and appreciate life itself as a gift and embrace the positive things people (whether family or not) have done for us and what we still have and enjoy each day in our home and our lives because by doing so we’ll have more joy. I know you’re trying honey and I love you so much for it.

The poet gives Ralph Waldo Emerson gives a good lesson in positive thinking,

“Some people are always grumbling
Because roses have thorns;
I however, am thankful,
That thorns have Roses.”


You are my rose in this thorny chapter in our lives and I’m afraid I’ve lost sight of that and have selfishly just focused on getting pricked by the thorns!……….Please know that I care so much and just want so badly for happiness to envelope our home once more.

I think we both need to view this journey as Jesus Christ did in the “footprints” poem…….I think honey, that at times you will need to lead and at times I will, other moments, we’ll be walking hand to hand beside one another, and we can’t forget that there’ll be moments when we must carry the other on our backs……to get through the darkest chapters.

I am just so thankful and humbled to still have you as my best friend, partner, mother of my baby boys and just simply my beautiful wife,


Mike

THANKFUL for our BOYS

I remember talking to Mike on a night when he was tearful and feeling so powerless; as a husband, as the provider to his family, as a father. I remember him too asking, “why?” and “what if…?” I asked him right back, “what if?” “What if” from the very beginning we knew we carried this gene? Would we have decided against having children? We would have never been given the gift of our first born, Drake? And “what if” we would have found out after Drake’s birth? We were already pregnant with Broc (they are only 16 months apart)…would that have changed a thing? No! (only the stress of all that comes along with being told you have an unhealthy baby). And “what if” this disorder would have been known after Broc, would we have ever had a third child? or “what if” we when we had our CVS testing during our pregnancy with Trey, then what? What would it have changed…NOTHING. These are the three children God has chosen to be ours and how THANKFUL we are !

"Special needs" = "Special Children"

"Special needs" - a label written in whispers over their lives. As I meet these children, I realize that they have so much to give, so much to offer, so much to share.

For their family members, their smiles warm hearts and souls as they see purely and without many conditions, as they feel deeply and love sincerely. Their hugs can heal more than the doctors; their "I love you" means more than the loudest applause or greatest achievement.

Their love has no hesitation because they are not afraid of being rejected. Their opinions are not based on others or on receiving praise. Their giving is pure, from the heart and focused on the minute, not on tomorrow.

They are not just "special needs" children, they are truly our special gifts and we are honored and humbled to have them part of our families.

*as written by Rob w/ Hopekids

Still Too Tired

After Trey woke up from his nap the other day, he walked into our room to see me. I was typing away on the computer when the phone rang. I came back into the room to talk on the phone and watch Trey, since he didn't follow me like usual...and now I know why (this is how I found him). I guess he wasn't ready to wake up just yet, ha-ha!

Helping to Heal

I tweaked this beautiful poem to make it fit our story.

Go ahead and mention my child,
The one with the disorder, you know.
Don't worry about hurting me further.
The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry.
I'm already crying inside.
Help me to heal by releasing
The tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent,
Pretending this doesn’t exist.
I'd rather you mention my son,
Knowing what you would have wished.
You asked me how I was doing.
I say "pretty good" or "fine".
But healing is something ongoing
I feel it will take a lifetime.
~ E. Dent ~

Trey's Preschool Picture

As with his sports picture, Trey was just as delighted to have his very own school pictures, school t-shirt and memory book...just like his big brothers, Drake and Broc.

Let's Go Thunder Cats

It has been so difficult for Mike and I to watch Trey attempt to play soccer with his Thunder Cat teammates who not only tower over him but who also have the ability to run circles around him week after week. But... all of that has been overshadowed by the smiles, excitement and pure joy Trey has been able to experience by being on a team, wearing a uniform, signing up to bring snacks, running through the parent tunnel, shaking his opponents hands and receiving team photos.



Trey did so well in his game this past weekend, the proud look on his face when we would cheer for him to run towards the ball as well as every time he subbed out was priceless. I believe that Trey did so well because he had some "special" fans this week...Justin and Kianna came to watch, and Trey thrived on the attention. Yes, I have been taking tons of pictures and just as much video coverage of these precious moments.

Not so Happy Halloween

Not much to say about Halloween. Due to the fact that the majority of us were out sick, we scaled down our annual Halloween party. We usually have a big family and friends celebration in our cul-de-sac but because of all the germs, we reluctantly had to call it off this year. Poor Trey tried so hard to live up to the "hype" but just couldn't pull it off. Trey did manage to put on his pirate costume for a photo op (even managed a slight smile) but didn't stay in his costume long and didn't walk to one front door to trick but we all made sure he got lots of treats for when he felt better.

Gettin' out of the Heat - Fall Break

Updates from the past month…sorry about the delay, our entire family got sick, I just thank God none of us contracted the H1N1 and that Trey recovered from his long sickness with out it turning into pneumonia…it lasted so long but his doctors reassured me that it takes this long and not to be worried but to keep them abreast of any changes in his symptoms.

So before all of us got sick (minus Mike, daddy, our bread winner) we were blessed to be able to spend the kids’ Fall break at Mikes’ bosses, fathers cabin in Munds Park. The boys had a blast being outside, enjoying the cool weather. While we were up North, the valley was recording record heat…lucky timing for us. The cabin was beautiful, the weather the same. Mike and I totally enjoyed ourselves getting away from “life” and kicking back in the woods with family (we invited my dad and Gloria for a few days and my mom and sister-in-law for a few).

During our stay we took a tour of Daddy’s alma madder, NAU and were lucky enough to be able to play catch in the same football stadium that Mike played on in college. The boys really got a kick out of being down on the field and I relished in the visual of Mike on the same field fast forwarded 20 plus years with his three boys, in all his glory.

Of course a perk came my way when I noticed the NAU cheerleaders practicing. You know me, I just had to ask for the girls to pose for a picture with Trey for his blog…they were more than happy to oblige.Go Lumberjacks!
Check out Trey in a "stunt"

Also before our family came to visit us up North, we took a ride to the Meteor Crater.

Drake and Broc were so amazed by the site and facts of the crater, Trey loved the gift shop with all the rocks and dinosaurs. It was a perfect day and although we thought we’d also make a trip to the Grand Canyon being this close, Trey’s back was just not into it…to much time in the car seat and he get’s cranky. Trey is such a delightfully good boy in that he never complains of pain. I always wonder if he hurts and if so where. Maybe one day he will let us know about the pain but for now, it’s far and few between that we ever hear a peep out of him in regards to the uncomfortableness of the car seat in relation to his kyphosis. Oh well, no Grand Canyon visit this time…we were thinking maybe we would take the train,should we go again.



















A gigantic thank you to the Humble family for allowing our family to stay in your outstanding cabin, for opening up your vacation home and your hearts to us. We can’t begin to thank you for the R&R and memories that we were able to make for our boys because of your generosity.